Monday, July 16, 2012
Very Powerful Technique To Improve Self Esteem: Discover Your greatest virtue and potential!
Today I'll give you a technique that will revolutionize your thinking about yourself, which will help you become a better person and above all to love and accept.
Discover your greatest asset so you can start working on it, developing and maximizing, to squeeze it like an orange that you get all the juice.
A few days ago you about self-acceptance and self-comparison, to understand why does this exercise so powerful I have to explain a little more on self-comparison.
Human persons make many mistakes throughout our lives and one of them is that we compare between us and you know that comparisons are odious and unjust.
When we compare ourselves with someone we tend to see the greatest virtues of others and look to us, but each person is a different world and the virtues of others can not compare with their own, because they are just not finding distintas.Al transform the virtues of that person's own fault and attract negativity to us. The comparisons do not help us in our lives.
But because we try so, because certainly we want to know if there is much difference with our semejantes.Quizá for fear of rejection, not being like other personas.Eso plays a trick on our self-esteem.
So if we see the good in others and ourselves wrong. What people see in you fixing?
I propose this,
Make a list of ten people who are part of your everyday life (friends, family or people you work with) but they are people I talk to often you hear that you go for a walk, to the movies or out for drinks . It is very important part of your daily environment, because these people know you, know you well and are the ones with the power of valuing people really like eres.No worth as Aunt I have in another city that I once year, or the friend who was two years ago to study or work out of town right? Well when you get a list of those ten people, are you going to make the following, you say:
Would you be able to tell me five positive aspects of my life?
If this person sees more than five positive aspects of you, you tell them too, all you can think of, but at least five per person. You're going to write the book you put in the name of the person and then issues ti.Cuando positive've finished talking to ten people, you're just a step to discover your great strength your greatest asset, which is going to make it really as you can see, you will help a lot to your positive development out your true inner self that is hidden inside you and you is screaming out to be known.
Well now that you have all the answers the next thing you do is look at them all, one person, calmly have time, analyze them and think they see that in ti.Te will notice that there is something which stands out above, which is repeated , this positive aspect that you all see in you, mark with a yellow sign on each sheet to see how many times you go more than a repeat repite.La record it on a separate sheet write it in big letters ... You know friend, there's your greatest virtue, and only you hold the key to your interior to promote it!
You can order them all if you want, but you're going to focus on the more you know how to develop greater virtue, and when you get it, you can focus on the following if quieres.Pero one by one, remember to give you 100% of your greatest asset .
This exercise has a great power if you take advantage and use it to improve self-esteem, over time you become a successful woman ... because you're starting to rebuild your life from a solid foundation that will not collapse again.
Look, I did this exercise a few years ago I developed my skills back and ... you know what my greatest strength? For he knew well to advise my friends and family, gave them a ray of light in their lives, made them feel better when they needed it and it's something I really wanted to boost my self-help vida.La I love, I still apply in my life and I like people to hear me and I can help them understand their problems.
Finally I ask you to leave a comment that you think of this article and if you've applied, how you been doing? and if you feel better now knowing that the people look at you by the virtue you have.
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