Premature ejaculation or misplaced ambition

The functions are never simple, nor sexual function is a complex articulation of various issues. Like any sexual disorder, premature ejaculation (or output of semen through the urethra to the outside, "sooner than expected?), Can occur occasionally in a situation and given a couple, a man who otherwise has a normal sexual life, ie, can be a circumstantial and isolated, or otherwise, may appear in virtually every subject's sexual encounters. It affects 40% of men. During sexual arousal in men increased progressively until the phase called "plateau", enjoying sexual pleasure until it voluntarily, he ejaculates. The premature ejaculation can not remain in the stage of "plateau", but there is an excitement and a rapid and early involuntary ejaculation. From the medical point of view, premature ejaculation is the inability to exercise voluntary control over the ejaculatory reflex, ie, the premature ejaculation, premature surprised uncontrollably. Psychoanalysis, however, challenges this "precocious?. In the premature ejaculation (which sometimes occur only ejaculate into or even before), there is excitement.

What seems like a premature ejaculation is a late premature: it excites three days before, for example, the friend of his girlfriend, and shoots three days after his girlfriend, almost with her. In fact if we think when he began his arousal, ejaculation would be delayed, three days later. We have said that ejaculation premature ejaculation surprised sooner than he expected, it's like "If you miss?. As eluded him as a boy pee at night in bed. In fact, the functions of urination and sexual arousal are closely related, not only by an anatomical question: is the same duct, the urethra through which urine passes in urination or semen in the ejaculate (does double duty ), but also a psychological issue, libidinal, in this sense it is not uncommon to have dreams of sexual content and waking up to urinate. In children it is very characteristic, that the act of urinating in front of a loved one is an act of seduction.

In the account of premature ejaculation, often appear bladder stimulus dreams (where you feel the urge to urinate), which are due to sexual stimulation attempts met first by way of regression to the infantile form of urethral erotism. This is especially true in cases where the urinary stimulus leads to disruption of sleep (that makes the subject feel to wake up) and the evacuation of the bladder, after back to sleep, the dream continues, and with a character externalizing erotic show. The premature ejaculator, if we accept that libidinal available places it in the urethral eroticism, we posited that certain character traits typical of urethral eroticism, for example, an ambition. This relationship between ambition and urethral eroticism is reflected in certain language expressions, such as referring to someone who is seen very ambitious, but not expected to go to achieve what is proposed, the phrase, "Aim higher than you can pee. " The ambition is neither bad nor good in itself, but the social setting produces different achievements that put in the symptom. We could say that it is "misplaced ambition?.

Other clinical findings that can be found in subjects with marked urethral eroticism, as well as encouraging the dreams of replacing or preceding bladder erotic dreams, is the existence of dream to be swimming, pushing through the waves, or dreams fire (remember that as the basis for the prohibition of playing with fire, they say to children that they do, who wet at night in bed). It is rare to find in these patients with premature ejaculation, a history of nocturnal enuresis (many of them were wetting the bed until later). In addition to the prevalence of urethral eroticism, there are other possible mechanisms involved may be related to the symptom of premature ejaculation, such as identification. You might think that premature ejaculation is identified with the enjoyment of the woman, or at least what he thinks is the enjoyment of it: she reaches orgasm so fast that it is as if the symptoms got that. When he ejaculates prematurely is a she, a woman. What happens is that we know the resilience it is much more limited than hers.

We should not be limited to the genital area of ​​premature ejaculation disturbances. They tend to be a position that leads the subject to when performing a task, all you are wanting is to finish what he's doing, not really interested in doing homework, but "get rid of it?, Whether what is concerned, is a conversation, work or sex, rather than "being what it is?, want to end as soon as possible. Therefore, premature ejaculation may not have symptoms in their genitalia, but has in the rest of their acts, if not consult possibly end up with symptoms in the field of sexual relations as well. The etiology or cause of premature ejaculation can be organic or psychological (the mental is the most common by far, is 98% of total), consisting of organic causes disorders of the urethra and prostate, and all diseases of the nervous system are altered reflex mechanisms of ejaculation. The psychological cause premature ejaculation, treated and cured by psychoanalysis.